Good point! More to the point, a real man loves his wife for who she is unconditionally, not for what she can do for him. I love my wife (of almost 23 years) for her humor, her passion, her open heartedness, her independence,and her capacity for kindness. If you want a fulfilled life, don’t think of those close to you for what they can do for you, that make people into objects, no different than a car or house. Anyone who so objectifies others is truly alone, I feel sorry for them.